Tuesday, June 29, 2021

Dear Hazel (Age 6)


Happy 6th birthday my sweet Hazel girl!!!  I can't believe it's been another year, another trip around the sun, and here I am writing your birthday letter.  A letter to my SIX year old.  My soon to be first grader.  My baby who isn't a baby anymore.

Favorite Color: “Purple – and green”

Yep – purple.  It’s been purple since you were old enough to decide.  But, I wonder how much of that is because we would encourage it (buying purple things…purple clothes etc) and how much is because that’s really what you like.  I suppose I know better…if it wasn’t true, you, of all people, would let us know.  



Favorite Food: “Bagels and cream cheese and Bubby pancakes”

At some point this year I gave you a bagel with cream cheese just to see if you’d like it and I have to agree, this has become one of your favorite foods.  It probably helped that I asked you these questions AS you were eating breakfast (a bagel) but you do eat them nearly every day now.  I’ve always felt like you are a more adventurous eater than your sister and I think that’s still true today.  You’ll try just about anything, and while you don’t always like the new thing, you do pick for a wider variety of foods than your sister and I love ya for that!  You do well with most vegetables, though you’ve decided you hate peppers for some reason.  



Nicknames:

  • ·        Franny – the most common and longest standing nick name we use for you.  This one will probably stick for a long time!
  • ·        Hay Hay – honestly though, I listed this one second, but it might be the only name Abby uses for you.  Well, she screams “Hazel” when she’s mad, but otherwise, you are Hay Hay in her book and I think it’s adorable that she’s given you this name.  Might not be what I’d have picked, but I think that’s not really how nick names work I suppose. 
  • ·        Booby Moopy – or really any other silly rhyming name depending on how the mood hits.  “Flippity Floppity”…“Boobity Moopity”….”Wiggle Waggle” – so many options.  



Favorite Toy:  “Stripes” 

You said Stripes (a small soft baby the Easter bunny brought a few years ago) is your favorite toy and I’d have to agree that she really is up there!  I’ll have to get a picture of you with her so I can include it here for posterity.  Stripes and your dollies are some of your favorite toys.  This past Christmas Daddy, Auntie and I worked really hard to make you a special wardrobe for Dolly’s clothes and I think you really do love that.  I hope it’ll be a something you treasure for a long time and maybe something that gets handed down through the years.  Only time will tell.

 The other thing that you really love is to make “books”.  Markers, tape, paper, these are a few of your favorite things.  When we were in quarantine last spring you went through so much paper and tape I started hiding it from you on really high shelves so you didn’t use it all up.  You’d cut paper into tiny pieces, you’d tape together the strangest (coolest) things and you’d go through a while ream of paper if I’d let you.  Even today, when we’re watching TV before bed you’ll often go grab some paper and markers and sit on the ground making all kids of art.  It’s so cool to see your creative heart and all the things you make.



Favorite Outfit:  “My Packers shirts…and my purple Charlie and the Chocolate Factory shirt”

I’m honestly not sure how these two somewhat random items made it on the list here, but, that’s what you said when I asked.  If I was answering this I’d say “anything with a skirt”.  You love dresses and skirts and they’d be your outfit of choice no matter the weather or the season.  It’s funny, because I wouldn’t necessarily call you a girly girl if someone asked me, but dresses are your jam.  And shoes!  You love shoes!



Some firsts this year:

  • Writing full name with correct letters (Capital M, G):  Kindergarten is such a year of growth and exploration....I'd forgotten how far Abby progressed in just that one year.  This year you mastered writing your full name correctly, with all the capitals in the right place.  You know how to write all the capital and small letters, do pretty well with your letter sounds, write phonetically, read some works (we're working on sight words this summer).
  • Showers:  We moved Abby up to taking showers sometime during the summer she turned 7.  I was tired of kneeling and running baths and while you two could play nicely for quite some time in the bath together, more often than not it ended in a fight so we moved on to showers.  Plus, your hair is cleaner when you aren't sitting in dirty bath water.  Anyways, you started taking showers independently this year and this Momma is so happy to have another job (mostly) off her list.  You still need some management (showers can take way too long if I'm not rushing your through the steps) and sometimes your hair comes out more tangly than when you went in, but overall this was a big win for us this year and I'm proud of you for doing it nearly 2 years before your sister. 
  • Lost tooth:  You have been very excited (and brave) about losing your first tooth since seeing all the dramatics your big sister goes through for a loose tooth.  You vowed that you wouldn't be scared and couldn't wait to lose your first tooth and baby girl, you weren't wrong.  One random afternoon you said your tooth was hurting a little and one bite of string cheese later your tooth was nearly out!  You wiggled it and wiggled it for the rest of the night and while you didn't lose it that same day, it was out by....  
  • Car seat updates:  This year we had some car seat updates too!  Earlier in the year (probably last summer sometime) you started being strong enough to put down your “bottom buckle” in the car seat meaning you can finally unbuckle yourself when we get somewhere.  But!  Just as school was ending I decided to switch you to a big kid car seat.  I think we’ve upgraded you about a year earlier that we switched Abby, but, I think that’s how it goes for #2’s.  You do everything a little sooner than the first kids.  With all the travel we have this year (Yellowstone in just a few short day!) it’ll be nice for you to have some more dexterity in the car.  To be able to reach your toys and the other things you’d need will certainly make my life easier too.
  • Skiing:  A first for both you girls this year was skiing!  Daddy’s been wanting to go for a few years now and we finally made it happen back in Feb with a much needed long weekend away.  Honestly, sweet Hazel, you were the best skier of the kids and I’m excited to see what a few more times on the hill will do for your skill and confidence.  We promise to get you and your sister on the hill again this winter….but, we’re going to enjoy the hot summer weather for a while before we start thinking about that.

Fears:  “The bad pigs”

At some point –maybe in the last year, maybe longer ago, you had a dream about “bad pigs” – you might have even had it more than once now because whenever you talk about “nightmares” or what you are afraid of, these bad pigs always comes up.  I’m not sure what exactly happened in your dream or why pigs were the thing, but when you answered with this I wasn’t surprised in the least.

I remember very clearly two nightmares I had recurringly as a kid and I wonder if this will be the just like those dreams are for me now, 30+ years later.  



 

A sweet story about you: 

Age 5 has been the year of lists for you! It all started back at Christmas time when we did our tradition of cutting out pictures of toy catalogs of all the things you wanted to ask for from Santa.  But, it didn’t end after one list session!  Your list grew and grew until it included two pieces of giant craft paper covered with pictures and drawings of the things you wanted.  For weeks (from maybe even before Thanksgiving, right up to Christmas) you thought and thought and added to your list.  At first I was frustrated with you, thinking we’d raised materialistic kids who didn’t understand the true meaning of Christmas, but now, looking back, I don’t think that’s really what was happening.  I think for the first time you understood that you could ASK for things and maybe, just maybe, you’d get them.  You aren’t selfish and you aren’t upset if you don’t get what’s on the list…you just want to be sure we have lots of choices.

But, while I thought Christmas day would be the end of your list making, I couldn’t have been more wrong.  One of the gifts we gave you were some blank board books – you love making books so much, and coloring and drawing, I thought for sure making some “real” books would be a hit!  Little did I know, they would be a hit…but not for the reasons I’d hoped.  It didn’t take long, maybe even the day after Christmas, and you’d turned your attention to your Birthday Books (lists upon lists of things you’d like for your birthday).  You’re lists are extensive and more often than not include “uliv bunees” (Alive bunnies) or other animals you’d like to own.  I bet we have at least 4 or 5 birthday books laying around the house with all your wishes listed for us in full color.  


Bears or Packers?  “Packers” (in a very quiet whisper)….though, I basically like both.”

I wonder if Ryan asked if you’d give him a different answer.  Maybe it’s not fair for me to ask you this each year, but it makes me laugh and it’ll be interesting in 20 years to see where you actually land.  Both you and your sister will probably end up saying “I don’t really watch football” or something funny like that.  But, for now it looks like I’ve got at least one other team Green and Gold on my side!

Favorite TV show: “Bluey”

I’m pretty sure you said this because it’s the show you and your sister are currently working through on Disney+ (a COVID addition to the McGrath household).  But, honestly though, you guys really do love this show and even I think it’s cute.  The parents in the show set a high standard and I’m not sure that Daddy and I quite live up to all the fun adventures and play Bluey’s parents create for the kids, but I promise we do the best we can! 

 Some other shows you like this year are Tangled, the Barbie cartoon series, Puppy Dog Pals, and really anything that plays on Disney Junior.



Favorite Movie: “Raya” – even though we haven’t watched it yet

I honestly have NO IDEA why you picked this movie – we haven’t even seen it yet.  But, Abby does know that it’s coming out soon and has been talking about it so it’s probably top of mind these days.  We’ve watched some real classics lately, like Free Willy and Black Beauty on top of the new cartoon movies that have come out this year.  Those old classics stand up to the test of time – or maybe it’s just because I’m nostalgic about it – but us three girls really enjoyed some of those older movies. 


Height/Weight:  44 inches (Same as Abby when she turned 6) and 40 lbs


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