Monday, June 29, 2020

Dear Hazel (age 5)



My dear sweet Hazel girl - I can't hardly believe that my little baby, my last baby is just about to turn FIVE!  If I'm honest, I'm so excited for all the days ahead, but I'm also a little sad that I really truly don't have a baby, or a toddler around the house anymore.  I mean, don't get me wrong, I'm not missing the sleepless nights nor mourning that we're through bottles and potty training and big girl bed transitions and all of those things!  But, I DO miss baby smells, and baby toes and toddler voices (and sayings).  But, this post is NOT about me and the things I miss...it's about you and all the things that make you great.  Because, girl...you are great!!  

Height/Weight:  You are 41.5 inches tall (a tiny bit taller than your sister when she turned 5!) and just about 39 pounds.  We don’t see the doctor for your yearly weigh in for a few more weeks, so I’m not sure where you are percentage wise, but looking back on Abby’s numbers at this age, I’d say you are in the bottom 50% range of kids your size.



Favorite Toy:  “My warthog”

Hum, this is a hard one this year!  I can remember what I wrote for the last few years, but I feel like you aren’t gravitating toward any one thing these days.  Dolly, your one and only (!), is still very much a thing, but she doesn’t have to come with for everything and more often than not, she’s left behind.  Rocks are still holding strong, but not nearly like they used to!  I’d say the one thing that both you and your sister are obsessed with are Legos!  During COVID quarantine the two of you got into building whole cities and creating all sorts of creative things with Legos.  During those weeks of staying home and doing very little you totally took over the back screened in porch and turned it into Lego central.  Between the portion of the McGrath family Lego collection (that we got around Christmas time) and the added Lego sets I picked up for you over the last few months, this toy is still going strong and you LOVE looking at Amazon on my phone and seeing all the Lego sets you could get. 

 Favorite Color: “Purple and also green”

Your favorite color is purple and that is still going strong!  Like last year you fluctuate a little bit, saying “I like purple but I also like (insert any color)”…. But these days your favorite is purple and you pick your purple clothes out of the pile first every week!



Some firsts this year:

  •        Bedtime songs – sometime earlier this year you decided that you wanted me to sign you a lullaby each night before you go to bed.  For the first few weeks I’d randomly pick as lullaby and sing it to you, but it quickly became clear that you wanted to hear Hush Little Baby each and every single night.  You used to call it the “shopping song” because all you could remember was the part where I said “Momma’s going to buy you a…”.  For a long long time I just made up things that rhymed or were funny but after realizing that this was a request that was here to stay I took the time to finally remember the real words.  Actually, funny enough, it was when Brenna was able to sing the entire song through that I realized there were words I’d never known!  Thanks B for giving me the push to look it up and learn it correctly, because now it’ll forever be stuck in my memory.
  •        School – in just a few short months you’ll be starting Kindergarten.  I mean, how did we get here??  I have two school aged kids in the blink of an eye.  Technically I suppose you started school last fall when you started attending Little Blessings Pre-school 4 half days a week, but 2020 will be the first time you ride the bus, the first time you spend a full day at class, and the first time I’m no longer paying for childcare during the day!!  Well, with COVID looming around, who even knows what school is going to look like this year, but, for now, we’ll just believe that you’ll be headed to Kindergarten on the bus just like your big sister in just a few short months.



Bears or Packers?  “Packers….but also the Bears”

Like your sister you’ve moved to the very politically correct answer of “I like both” when asked this question.  I can’t confidently say that you care one way or another, so for now we’ll say both and I’ll continue to stack your wardrobe with  more Packers than Bears and hold out hope for the long term.  

Fears: “Wolves”

This summer I’ve seen you conquer your fear of bugs – in fact, these days you LOVE to go outside with a bug net and the bug/butterfly/frog jar looking to catch all sorts of little things.  One new fear you’ve been talking about is that you’ve been having bad dreams.  Even just today, as I write this, you were in my room at 5am asking to watch TV because you woke up from a bad dream.  Luckily (for both of us!) you fell back to sleep after I laid in bed with you for 20 minutes or so.  When I ask you what your dreams were about you most often tell me “bad pigs”.  I have no idea what that means, or where it could come from, but you’ve said it more than a handful of times.  I remember two vivid dreams that I used to have when I was younger (one about a tiger pacing around my feet as I stood on the ladder to our attic in our garage, and another where we’re driving up a mountain and come to a bridge that opens for boats.  We’d speed up the car as fast as we could to try and JUMP over the open bridge…gah…I get anxiety even typing it out!).  Anyways, I wonder if these “bad pigs” will be one of those dreams that sticks with you forever.  Guess we’ll see, baby girl!  



Favorite TV show: “Paw Patrol”

Favorite Food: You, sweet Hazel, are my easier eater.  You’ve always been more willing than your sister, and that continues to hold true.  You still complain, don’t get me wrong, we still struggle through meals, but you’ll try  more things than Abby ever did and for that, I am thankful.  Some of your favorite things are broccoli, cherries, apples, oatmeal, and Daddy Mac (Velveeta Mac and Cheese).  You much prefer water over milk and while I wish you’d drink more milk I don’t fight you on this anymore.  You eat plenty of dairy, you love cheese like your Daddy, and yogurt is an easy sell, so I just offer you milk at dinner (which you rarely drink) and just let you have water.  You prefer Chicken Nuggets from McDonalds, while Abby like cheeseburgers.  Like all kids, you love snacks more than anything.  I swear, as soon as 3pm hits all you want is snacks on snacks on snacks.  Your favorite snack is cheese and crackers but a close second is apples, WHOLE apples, that is.  You want to try to eat the whole dang thing, which often leads to apples with three bites missing laying around the house…not my fav.  But we’re working on that part, I’m just happy you choose healthy snacks!



Favorite Outfit:  To say that you have one favorite outfit isn’t quite right, it’s more that you have a signature style!  Your style is loud and crazy and as mixed up as possible.  I thought maybe this was a toddler-hood thing, but as you are growing up I’m seeing that you have many more opinions about what you wear than Abby ever has!  Abby, at nearly age 8, is still totally fine with me picking out her clothes each day.  Not you baby girl.  Most days you come down from your room, already dressed, and, no matter it’s seasonal appropriateness, there is no changing your mind!  Whatever you pick is what you are going to wear, and trying to change your mind is a waste of all of our time.  So, I just go with it and embrace your style for what it is…it’s just you!  You like wild colors and there is no such thing as a matching outfit for you.  You like to add skirts of just about any outfit, a headband to top it all off, and let’s not forget that your shoes are on the wrong feet about 80% of the time!

Favorite Movie: “Spies in Disguise”



Nicknames:

These are not new by any means, but rather, they are sticking around and likely will for years to come.  You still refer to yourself as Hiker Hazel whenever it’s time to do something that involves being strong and powering through.  And, anytime I say it’s time to pick up, you remind me that you are “my best cleaner”, which, honestly, is still true! 

  • Franny
  • Hiker Hazel
  • Tootsie
  • “My best cleaner” – I’m certain someday you’ll have a Cinderella complex because sometimes when I negotiate with Abby that she can do X if she does Y, you are quick to ask what you can do to do the same.  Since you aren’t quite reading on your own, and oftentimes I’m encouraging Abby to read for a while, I put you on cleaning your room.  While you are by far the best at focused cleaning, you are also the messy pack rat of the family and your room could ALWAYS use a little clean up.  

A sweet story about you:  When I was little, a neighbor told Joey and I, that if you could shake salt on a bunny’s tail, it would stand still and you could catch it.  In a moment of genius remembered this story earlier this summer and told it to you.  Well, sweet girl, you believe it 100%...with your whole being.  And, now, since that day, you are out in the yard chasing bunnies each and every single day.  I admire your tenacity.  Most days whenever you wake up (sometimes 5 am, sometimes 7….but most days around 6:30), the first thing you do is come into our room to ask me if you can go catch bunnies.  You want to do it as soon as we get home, and before you go to bed (it’s quite the delay tactic).  I ended up getting you your own shaker of salt after you went through my entire shaker of salt in one evening. 

Little did I know when I told you that story that this would be the obsession of the summer!  Dare I say that I even looked into a rabbit hutch and the possibility of getting you girls’ rabbits.  The jury is still out on that front.  I have some more research to do, but at least for now, you are 100% obsessed with the idea of catching (and then keeping) your own rabbit right from our back yard.

So, sweet girl, I hope that your birthday is everything you'd hoped it would be and if there is one thing I know for sure, it's that we are going to make a lot of memories together in the coming year.  Here's to being five sweet Hazel girl.

Thursday, June 25, 2020

Cuzzies Camping - Brown County



The first full week in June we were supposed to be in the UP camping, visiting Tahquamenon Falls, Pictured Rocks and sharing some of our favorite places with Chris and Brenna, Liz and Bobby, and Sarah and Dan.  Michigan isn't nearly as open as some of the other areas of the world, so we had a bad feeling we weren't going to be able to make that trip work.  So, late April/early May, over a Zoom call with the cuzzies, we rescheduled everything to head down south to Brown County, Indiana.  


(These might actually be the kids first time playing with sparklers...they were such a big hit I've already bought another stash for the 4th!).  

We had another Cuzzies Camping in Brown County 3 years ago - I remember it because we came up late the to trip because it fell on Abby's first day of Kindergarten.  That trip was rough for us, so I'm so happy to report that we have new, way better memories, to replace our last experience.  We arrived on Wednesday and stayed til Sunday and honestly, it was a great trip.  The weather was great, the camp ground was basically deserted until Friday night....there were very few bugs, we all laughed, and hung out and just relaxed for probably the first time in months.  


The girls big enough now that they hike on their own (no more kid back packs for the McGraths!!), the are the best babysitters for cousin Row (she is literally my favorite baby of all time right now!).  We've all been camping together long enough at this point that we all pretty much know the routine and what works for our group.  All in all, we'll have some great memories from this trip for a long time!



Oh!  And the boat!  We decided to rent a huge double-decker pontoon boat for Friday morning.  The group had rented a similar boat the year that we came up a few days late, but we missed out on that part, so we were pumped that everyone was willing to rent it again.  The boat was great!  It was huge, and it had a slide!!  I think everyone went down the slide at least once (yes, me included!).  It was fun to be out on a boat on a "new lake".  To explore the coves and house shop (or house boat shop) while we drove around the lake.  I think the only thing we'd do differently next time is to rent it for the full day instead of just 4 hours.  Next time!!  Because, I'm pretty sure there WILL be an "next time" for this trip.



I have more pictures than stories of this trip, so I'm just going to post the rest of my favorites here for you to check out.  Man do I love these people!!  










Tuesday, June 16, 2020

1 Family x 12 (June)



This past weekend we ventured out on our first COVID vacation - camping in Brown County.  We were supposed to be up in the UP camping for the first full week in June, but Michigan has been a little more closed down and one of our planned locations (Taquamenon Falls) canceled our reservations.  So, we headed south to Brown County, Indiana and made the most of it!  More on that trip in another Cuzzies Camping post, but, for now, here's our June family photo.