Monday, November 10, 2025

Hawaii - Kona (Part 1)

 


Guys - we just got back from 10 days in Hawaii and I can't wait to tell you all about it!  Last Christmas Dan said "This year I turn 75 and Hawaii is the only state I've never visited.  I want to go to Hawaii and I want you all to come too".  A trip to the island wasn't in the plan, but how could we not make it work!?!  Plus...who is sad about a trip to Hawaii?


As we always do, we already had the years vacations planned out - especially the summer travel so I suggested early November for the trip.  September is too close to school starting, and October is when the school classrooms are through state testing and finally up and running....so I looked into November.  The flights over the Thanksgiving weekend were 3x the price of earlier in the months so, that's how we landed on Nov 5-15.  We left on a Wednesday morning and arrived back home again mid-day Saturday, over a week later.  It meant we had 10 days on the Big Island and boy did we make the most of it!


We started our trip on the Kona side of the island.  The Big Island is WILD!  There is so much bio-diversity.  You could drive 10 minutes and be in a totally different climate.  The Kona side of the island is the "dry side".  They get roughly 10 inches of rain per year there.  It's sunny and warm (mid-80s in the day and low 70's at night, at least when we were there).  To contrast, the Hilo side (only 40 ish miles away) gets over 100 inches of rain per year.  There's a mountain (or really a volcano) between the two sides, and today they are getting 5+ inches of snow at the top.  Just think of the climate change between those three parts of the island, and that's not it!


One day we drove to the North side of the island - an hour and a half drive from Kona and on that drive we drove through lava fields, dessert like areas, grassy rolling hills with cattle grazing and rainforests...seriously, drive 15 minutes and you might be in a totally different environment.  I enjoyed it so much (and also realized how OLD we must sound to the girls...the number of times we talked about the typography or the weather was really quite impressive).  LOL!


The kids tried their first shaved ice (overall review: "good, not great").  They also tried passionfruit based ice cream (overall review:  "not good", but I personally liked it!  I'm glad I made them split before I spent $25 on ice cream they didn't like).  


We went to a few restaurants while we were there:
  • Cheeky Tiki - great!  Would recommend to others and would for sure go back.
  • Don's Mai Tai Bar - great view, good Mai Tais.  Worth it for a drink but maybe grab food somewhere else.  Mom and Dad recommended this one to us and it was a good suggestion!
  • Kona Inn and Restaurant - pictured above.  We just grabbed a drink there one day when we were shopping in downtown Kona.
  • Poncho and Lefties - Mexican restaurant downtown.  We stopped there because they had a patio to watch the light parade planned at the start of the coffee festival.  It ended up POURING rain right as the parade was starting so we didn't sit on the balcony in the end, but the idea was good.  I'd rate the food as mid though.  


The house we rented was perfect for us!  It was steps away from Magic Sands Beach - one of the few sand beaches on the island.  Most of the beaches are rocky (from the lava).   Magic Sands wasn't a huge beach - especially after we visited Panama City Beach area earlier this year where there is beach for as far as the eye can see!  But, we didn't need a huge beach.  We just needed enough space to plop down 5 chairs and waves for the girls to play in.  The waves were pretty rough there.  We heard the lifeguards say this beach is top 3 in all of Hawaii for head and neck injuries, so it's no joke!  But, it was fun to watch all the surfers early in the morning or to watch the local kids boogie board in the afternoons.  The girls played it pretty safe, especially after they heard the lifeguard's warnings, but they for sure got a few good runs on their boards and loved playing in the sand.  We could not have been closer to the beach and it was lovely to be able to just hop over there for 30 minutes or 2 hours and not feel like it was a whole rigamaroll to do it. 


The beach was close, but I think the girls would say that their favorite thing about the house in Kona was either the geckos or the pool.  They had so much fun catching the geckos (and this baby one even had my heart for a little bit there!).  The pool at the house was great!  It was warm and the house had all sorts of water toys and chairs and snorkels there for us to use.  It might have been the best stocked house we've ever stayed at.  


November in Illinois is pretty grey looking...but not in Hawaii!  There were so many pretty flowers and new plants to look at.  It was impossible to just walk past without taking a photo or two.  So many pretty colors!  I walked every single day on vacation, 2 or 3 miles each day and it was such a wonderful way to start the day.  The time difference between Hawaii and home was 4 hours (the clocks moved back 4 days before we left so it was 4 hours, not 5.  That meant that we had lots of early mornings and many early to bed nights (my fav!).  The girls did great with the time change.  The time change and the long travel days were the two things I was most worried about when it came to the kids...oh, and pulling them from school for 10 days.  But, the girls did great with the time difference.  Monday morning the first day back at school was a little tough, but I think its easier to come this direction (vs. going backwards in time).


We listened to the Guide Along app while we drove around the island and we learned so much!  We learned about the history of King Kamehameha, the geology behind volcanos, the way cattle is raised on the island, why prices are the way they are and so much more!  Mom and Dad stumbled on the Guide Along app a few trips ago - we used it in Acadia and Mom and Dad gifted me the Big Island tour for my birthday.  We love it as a way to learn about the places we visit without needing to pay a tour guide.  Highly recommend!



On our trip to the North side we stopped at the Pololu Beach - a black sand beach at the very top of the island.  There was a short (but steep!) hike there down to the beach and I'm really glad we did it.  The trail was less than a mile but there was about 400 feet of elevation change.  It was beautiful at the bottom and I'd carried our sandwiches down with me so we all at lunch at the edge of the ocean.  You don't get to do that very often!





There are 4 National Park Stamps to get on the Big Island, but with the 2025 government shutdown fully in place only 2 of the locations had staff working.  We were able to visit Volcano's National Park (I might have cried if we weren't able to do that one!  It's half of the reason we picked to visit this island) and Pu'uhonua O Honaunau National Historic Park where we got to learn about the indigenous people in Hawaii and how they lived when they arrived on the island.  The statues above were from that park....I enjoyed walking around there and I think the kids learned a few things (I hope!).





If I had to recap Kona in just a few words I'd say warm, sun, beachy, exploring and adventuring and urban.  Urban isn't quite the right word...it implies a much bigger city than Kona actually is, but this is definitely the side of the island for restaurants, shopping and beaching.  





We left Kona on Monday and took the long road (ie: the southern route) to Hilo.  We passed through Volcanos National Park but I'll do a whole post on that here next.  On our trip to the other side we made two other notable stops - the PunaLu'u Bakery (the southern-most bakery in the United States) and the famous Black Sand Beach.  The Bakery was a fun stop (thanks to the Guide Along app and Mom's double down recommendation to stop) - we got cookies and ice cream and malasadas (a Portuguese donut that was 100000% worth it in my opinion!)


I learned my lesson when I suggested we skip the Black Sand Beach (because, in my defense, we'd already seen a black sand beach earlier in the week...) - it turns out that if you've seen one black sand beach, it doesn't mean you've seen them all.  LOLO!  Erin voted we stop and I think we're all really glad we did.  We saw our first turtles there, and the only seal we saw on the trip.  If you're planning to visit and reading my blog, take my word and do not fall for the paid parking spots.  If you go just a tiny bit further you'll park with the locals and save $15 per car.  We didn't stay long because we were headed to the Hilo house and we still had a stop at Volcanos in the itinerary.  We ate lunch at the beach, explored around a little bit and then headed back to the cars and kept on with our travel day.



All in all, Kona was amazing and I think we spent the perfect amount of time on that side of the island.  If you visit, plan to spend some time driving.  If you don't leave Kona or the resort areas you won't really get a sense for how diverse the island is.  I feel like you can access a lot more from the Kona side, so if you're picking when to drive, do it on the Kona side.

Saturday, November 1, 2025

Halloween (over 2 weekends)

 


Halloween fell on a Friday night this year, so we used the weekend before to get all of the fun holiday activities.  For a few years now Jamie has grown pumpkins for the girls in a little patch at the entry to their neighborhood.  This year she wasn't sure how big they'd be because she started late, but the girls ended up with great sized pumpkins and they had a great time carving them.


Neither Jamie or I can quite figure out why, but this years carving was one of the most chaotic,  messiest activities we've done in a long time.  For some reason the girls had pumpkins all over the floor and at least one or two kids cried because their ideas weren't coming out coming out the way they had them planned in their heads.




Hazel had an idea to carver hers into a dragon flying but somehow that wasn't turning out so she cut it in half fully to try and make a hamburger (??) and when that also wasn't working, she turning it into a cat.  Odd, but...that's Hazel!  And, I gotta say, she used her creativity and wasn't too upset when she needed to pivot.


Abby's idea was to make a carousel and she did an amazing job.  I thought we had a crisis teed up when the horse broke, but my suggestion of using toothpicks did the trick.  We didn't pick winners, but if we did, Abby would have won.


We've been recreating this picture of the girls for years...sitting in this way with matching pjs on.  Jamie always remembers to take it so I can take exactly zero credit for recreating it year over year.  


I couldn't miss the girls Halloween parade at school...it's Abby's last year at Riley!  The last year I'll have them both under this roof.  I'll get one more year of them being in the same school, Abby's senior year of high school...I can't believe I'm already typing phrases like that!




This year's theme was Dunkin Donuts (Jamie's suggestion and I loved how easy this one was to pull together).  I am not sure how many more years Abby will be trick or treating with us.  This year she was almost too cool for school and she didn't love the donut idea but we conned her into it in the end.  Next year, I'm not so sure we'll be so lucky.  Abby is already putting out the idea that we all go as either Greek Gods/Goddesses or our favorite book characters.  We'll see - that might be too hard for the little girls.  Maybe this is our last year with a big big group costume.  



Ryan started his costume about a week before - and honestly, it turned out great!  It wasn't super easy - all of the white paint peeled off after the first attempt at the words, but he got it in the end.  I'm really glad he did the cup, I think it really pulled the group together.  Between Ryan's costume and the girl's donut hole boxes, those were the two things that got others to understand our costume.  We got lots of compliments and you know I loved being in a nice warm outfit!








Friday, October 31, 2025

1 Family x 12 (Oct)

 

It never fails - October is almost always one of my favorite family photos of the year and this year is no different.  

Tuesday, October 28, 2025

Braces (another first!)

 




It's been 18 months and just like that, we're almost on the other side of braces for this beautiful girl!  She's got her top braces off and the bottoms are soon to follow.  I bet we'll be fully out of braces before Christmas (fingers crossed!).  It's wild how different she looks without them.  Like a grown up!




Saturday, October 25, 2025

Abby's 8th Grade Dance (a first!)

 


OMG!  I think it's official - Abby is cooler than I was when I was in 8th grade.  Not only does she already have a boyfriend (Jayden...the same one from earlier this year) but he also came over, with flowers and gifts, to ask her to the Jr. High dance.  It really was the sweetest thing.  His mom texted me that he wanted to ask her and that he had something special planned and my heart exploded for her.  Its very sweet.

I knew this was in the works so the weekend before Mom and I took Abby out to try and find a cute outfit for her.  A few weeks earlier I asked her "Hey, would you want to go shopping at Kohl's to see if we can find you a cute outfit for the dance?"  She said YES, of course! 

But - the best part of the story was that two or three days later she asked me "hey Mom, you asked if I wanted to go to Kohls, what's that?!?".  😂  I couldn't resist.  "It's a VERY FANCY designer store that has high fashion outfits...it's going to be perfect".

Kohls was a giant disappointment, especially after my tee up.  But, Target and Grandma came through in the end.  This adorable little outfit fit her SO PERFECTLY and it was perfect for the theme (Black and White). 



Its really true - Abby is cooler than me.  That happened.  It took 13 years and honestly, I'm proud of it.  It's called winning as a Mom - making a kid that's cooler than you is the whole goal.  And I love her so so much for it.


OMG!  That is all there is to say, OMG!  We have 5 years left til college and I think that reality is finally starting to feel real.  

Saturday, October 11, 2025

Anthony and Brittany's Wedding

 


We went to the most fun wedding we've been to in quite awhile - Anthony and Brittany's wedding.  It was a great night...the venue was beautiful, Brittany's dress was beautiful, the food was good, the drinks were great, the appetizers were amazing.  I had the best chocolate chip cookie I can remember and my outfit was not only cute, but comfortable!  We danced for hours.  Truthfully, one of the most fun weddings I can remember.  I kinda wish we could do it again.  I mean, not tonight.  Tonight I need to go to bed and drink only water and eat only veggies for three days to recover.  But, I'd be ready to do a repeat on this night at any point.




(He does it to himself!  These are the photos he gives me to choose from...but also, I love this man!)





Look at this cute group!

Monday, October 6, 2025

Halloween Camping (our list trip for the 2025 season)

 


Last year we stumbled on Halloween camping at Skillet Creek (near Devil's Lake) with the McCarthys in a late season camp trip and we had such a good time we knew we needed to recreate it.  This year we brought the Brackemyers with us.  I think it was a HUGE success. 

As we were packing to get ready for this last camp trip of the year Abby said "I'm so excited for this weekend.  I love camping.  I love being with our friends.  Thanks for taking us Mom."  It was in that moment I knew we'd done something right along the way.  Sometimes when I slow down enough to recognize it I realize how lucky we are.  We're living "the good old days" right now...they are playing out before my eyes and I want to remember every moment of it.  





You know what that's a photo of?  That's a picture of the 1st and 3rd place winners of the pumpkin carving contest.  Yes, you read that right, 1st and 3rd!  Abby won first and Bridgette came in third.  They both did such a great job.  I think Abby worked on her pumpkin for 1.5+ hours.  Everyone else had moved on and was swimming and she was just working away quietly...and boy did it pay off.  She won a cute rainbow silicone cup but more than that, she won bragging rights.  Last year she placed "runner up" and this year she moved up to first.  Pretty hard to top that!



The kids had less luck with during the costume contest but honestly, I'm proud of them!  They came up with group costume ideas all on their own.  I said I'd donate $15 to their costumes and they both stayed in budget.  Abby found hers at Goodwill and Hazel pulled everything she had on from around the house and I donated to the blue wigs.  


Penny had her first experience with sand I am here to tell you she was the happiest dog in all the land.  She could dig and dig and dig and we didn't yell at her once.  I think she dug until she couldn't dig anymore.  She would dig a whole til she got tired, lie down in it and then pop up to dig a second hole 5 feet over.  It wasn't until she dug herself a long skinny trench to lay her entire belly in that she finally laid down and took a nap for awhile.  It was hilarious!



All that digging really took it out of her.  I wasn't sad to have a snuggle buddy that night.  It was warm during the day (around 90!) and then it cooled out quickly and we were able to snuggle in by the fire.  It was the perfect mix of all the seasons.  The last dog days of summer with hits of cool and what's to come.  Fall is my most favorite time of year and I feel us right on the cusp of it.






Kid gang life!  This picture cracks me up!  A gang of kids with their Halloween haul!